HOW TO WOO A DIFFICULT MAN IN 11 EASY STEPS - GEOGRAFÍA - 2025

In this article I will show how to seduce a man difficult, single or married, and seduce him until he can not be separated from you. You will learn to conquer the man you like, although for this you will have to change certain habits and behaviors.

Surely you have often wondered what you have to do to make a man like you. And actually the answer is very simple, although for some women difficult to accept.

Keep reading to understand the keys and with the advice that I will give you, you will begin to attract many more attractive men to your life. I will be completely sincere and say things that others do not dare because they think they will hurt other people. But it is the truth and it will help you get better men who make you happy.

Men are not like women. You as a woman can be attracted to something more than a physique; the values of the man, her plans, if she is successful or her personality. Of course also her physique, although it is not enough.

But men are different from women. If you want to make them fall in love you have to understand how they are, what attracts them and why.

Would you like to be a woman with options and be able to choose the ideal boy or have to settle for the boy you have been able to choose? Many women settle because they have not been able to opt for something better and then they are deceived.

They say; "I like my boy because he is intelligent" or "Although my boyfriend is not very intelligent and fat, I love him because he is good." Often these are excuses to justify why they are with that person.

But do not be fooled; They have not really chosen, they have been left with the only thing they could choose and have settled.

Don't become that woman; learn what attracts men, work it, show it and start choosing the guys who really make your life that much better.

10 Steps and tips to make a man fall in love

Download this image to remember 5 keys to attract the man of your dreams.

Work your physique

Men have evolved preferring certain physical characteristics; rather thin women, with moderately wide hips and young.

A high% of men will always prefer a woman with a good physique than an unattractive one who has other qualities. There are some exceptions, like Hugh Jackman's girlfriend, but they are just that; exceptions, and cannot be generalized.

Taking care of yourself is very important. You have to take care of your health through nutrition and physical exercise.

If you are not that young, try to appear younger, but don't be obsessed with it and don't make a fool of yourself by dressing like a teenager.

Forget the saying "beauty is on the inside." I'm sorry but the reality is that for men not. At least for 95%.

If a woman in her partner says it, it is probably because she has not had a better man to be with.

Learn to love yourself

Men - and women - are scared off by needy people with low self-esteem. A person with good self-esteem is attractive.

Also, if you love yourself, you won't accept something bad in your life. You will not need that man, you will have him in your life because you want him, because he really brings something good to your life.

Really want your man

Don't need it, really love it for the way it is. For this you will have had to choose it, not have it because you did not have a better option.

That way you will value him, you will really care for him, you will not manipulate him and he will notice and appreciate it.

Be aware of their needs

The reality is that men need sex much more than women. It is a really important part of their lives.

If you can't bring him what he's looking for, he will probably start looking for it in someone else. This is something biological; They do not do it to annoy, but because they have evolved that way.

Women are more selective, they cannot risk sleeping with any man because it is a risk to get pregnant. However, men are "programmed" to get as many women pregnant as possible.

Although this may seem scandalous, it is the truth. You just have to ask a trusted friend or enter an internet forum. Do not ask your boyfriend, because logically he will not confess that fact.

On the other hand, this does not mean that he will be unfaithful to you. If you can contribute to his life what he is looking for, he will be with you because he will be happy.

Smile

But what are other qualities that men like?

According to Dr. John Gray, author of the famous book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus:

“A man looks for a woman with a smile. Men bond more easily when they feel they can make them happy. A woman has to focus less on how to make him happy and more on how he makes them happy. "

Become a valuable woman

Physique for men is extremely important, but there are some other things that add up that can make you the "complete pack." If you work everything, you will be someone very valuable to him.

It is not enough to be attractive. If, for example, you are a hottie but you don't know anything about culture and you don't have conversation topics, you can possibly start ruling out all smart men. They may just want to be with you to have sex.

If you are unattractive and have culture, you will not attract most men, not even the smartest.

The most attractive and high-value men, physically attractive men, intelligent, agreeable and professionally successful, have many options and if you want to be up to the task you will have to be the "complete pack".

Read, learn interesting things, develop a skill -dance, play an instrument, a sport-… But do it for yourself, something you really like, don't do it for the man.

That will make the man look at you favorably. You will seem like a woman with tastes, restless, curious and who can contribute something to her life and maybe her children.

Talk to him

The man you like may be a bit shy, or he may not have noticed you. You may be distracted or focused on other things.

Many men like nice women who are interested in them. The cultural idea that the man must always be the first to speak to the woman has to be eliminated.

If you accept it, you will be refusing to meet many valuable men who for one reason and another have not spoken to you.

Really take an interest in him

This point is one of the most important and if you fulfill it you will have won the game. Everyone likes to be interested in them.

Men are like that too. Ask him about his goals, about the last book he has written, his projects, what he is working on, his dreams…

This will also help you to rule out unattractive men who will not add anything to your life. A man with goals and dreams will bring more to your life than a conformist one who does not know where he is going.

Be selective

A man can know that a woman tends to sleep with many men and he can too. But it is very likely that he does not see her as a possible partner.

If the man feels that you have chosen him and that you are selective, he will value you much more and see you as a long-term partner.

For this you will have to bring an optimal balance. You don't want to be uptight and extremely difficult; having to be on 10 dates to have a kiss.

But neither do you sleep with him after 24 hours. If you do, he will enjoy it, but he may see you as easygoing.

This is important; Some insecure men think easy women are of less value and may be treated worse and less valued. Men with good self-esteem will accept and treat them well.

However, most men will value and be more attracted to a selective woman who does not go with just anyone. That is why it is important that you know how to reach a balance.

In bed, be active and have fun

When you have sex, have fun. Even ask him what he likes. Don't be boring, please don't look at the clock and make it enjoy.

Sex is extremely important for men, you have to please him to make him fall in love and like you.

Have fun, let go, get activated, make it enjoy.

Conclusions

Physique is very important for men. It is important that you take care of yourself physically so that you can fall in love with him and start attracting him from the first moment.

On the other hand, try to be nice; talk to him if he doesn't. Also, take an interest in him in a real way, because if you do it with second interests he will be noticed and scared him away.

If you do not want to settle for what other women leave you will have to make an effort and thus you will be able to attract the really valuable men who will contribute the most to your life. Otherwise, you will have to keep what was left over and what you have.

Much of the advice in this article has been taken from Mario Luna, an expert in interpersonal relationships and attraction. Specifically from this video, I recommend that you watch it:

References

1. Where Do We Fall When We Fall In Love? Elisabeth Young-Bruehl. Journal for the Psychoanalysis of Culture and Society. Volume 8, Number 2, Fall 2003 pp. 279-288
2. The Male Brain. Louann Brizendine, Paperback (2011)
3. Men are from Mars Woman are Venus. John Gray. HarperCollins (1993)
4. Single, Shy, and Looking for Love: A Dating Guide for the Shy and Socially Anxious. Shannon Kolakowski PsyD Paperback (2014)
5. The Male Brain. Louann Brizendine, Paperback, 2011